[CUDA] Update cuda archs in packaging pipelines

[Tianlei Wu (tianleiwu)]

This change aligns CUDA architecture selections across the CUDA plugin EP and the related Python, C API, TensorRT, and Node.js packaging pipelines. Linux Python packaging now passes architecture lists separately for x64 and aarch64, while the other Linux packaging scripts use the same per-CUDA-version x64 lists.

CUDA Architecture Matrix

OS	CUDA	CUDA architectures
Windows x64	12.8	61;75;86;89;120a
Windows x64	13.0	75;80;86;89;120a
Linux x64	12.8	60;70;75;80;86;89;90a;120a
Linux x64	13.0	75;80;86;89;90a;120a
Linux aarch64	13.0	89;90a;120a;121a

The a suffix denotes the architecture-specific CMake form such as 90-real or 120-real; all entries in the pipelines are emitted with the -real suffix. CUDA 12.8 has no Linux aarch64 packaging configuration in these pipelines.

Key Changes

• Updated plugin-cuda-pipeline.yml as the reference architecture matrix.
• Split Python packaging parameters into Windows x64, Linux x64, and Linux aarch64 CUDA architecture settings.
• Forwarded the Linux architecture setting through py-linux-gpu-stage.yml, run_python_dockerbuild.sh, and build_linux_python_package.sh.
• Aligned C API, TensorRT C API, and Node.js Linux packaging scripts with the plugin Linux x64 settings.
• Removed 120-virtual from the affected packaging configurations so they match the plugin EP configuration.

Validation

• bash -n passes for all modified Linux packaging scripts.
• Modified pipeline YAML files parse successfully with PyYAML.
• git diff --check passes.