Collect filter selectivity

[avantgardnerio]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.
I would like to collect stats on how selective my filters are for databasey reasons.

Describe the solution you'd like
Something like this: https://github.com/coralogix/arrow-rs/blob/53eb05b142df31dfb89b02194f09d78f3f467ca2/parquet/src/arrow/arrow_reader/mod.rs#L640

Describe alternatives you've considered
I am open to other options

Additional context

[alamb]

I wonder if we could extend https://docs.rs/parquet/latest/parquet/arrow/arrow_reader/metrics/enum.ArrowReaderMetrics.html somehow to capture the effective selectivity of filter evalution