Update conda build/host deps to avoid overlinking issues

[charlesbluca]

Which issue does this PR close?

n/a

Rationale for this change

Our conda nightly builds emit some warnings around overlinking:

WARNING (datafusion,lib/python3.11/site-packages/datafusion/_internal.abi3.so): Needed DSO lib/liblzma.so.5 found in ['xz']
WARNING (datafusion,lib/python3.11/site-packages/datafusion/_internal.abi3.so): .. but ['xz'] not in reqs/run, (i.e. it is overlinking) (likely) or a missing dependency (less likely)
WARNING (datafusion,lib/python3.11/site-packages/datafusion/_internal.abi3.so): Needed DSO lib/libgcc_s.so.1 found in ['libgcc-ng']
WARNING (datafusion,lib/python3.11/site-packages/datafusion/_internal.abi3.so): .. but ['libgcc-ng'] not in reqs/run, (i.e. it is overlinking) (likely) or a missing dependency (less likely)

That seem to be due to leaving out some build/host requirements that should be explicitly specified. This PR does this using the same approach taken in conda-forge/staged-recipes#23386 to resolve overlinking issues in a similar maturin project.

What changes are included in this PR?

Adds Rust / C compilers to build deps to resolve the libgcc_s.so.1 dependency, and xz to the host deps to resolve the liblzma.so.5 dependency

Are there any user-facing changes?

n/a

[charlesbluca]

Closing this out in favor of #350